How to Make Your Friend Feel Appreciated

Friendship is one of the most beautiful and fulfilling relationships we can have. As Christians, we are called upon to love our neighbors as we love ourselves, and having good friends perfectly illustrates this principle.

But how do we care for friends like the Bible instructs us to? Before we delve into that, it’s essential to understand what it means to be a friend.

A friend understands us, accepts us as we are, and is there for us in every circumstance. A friend rejoices in our successes, supports us in our failures, and helps us grow into the person we're meant to be.

Proverbs 17:17 says, “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity,” reminding us of the unceasing commitment a friend should have.

Caring for our friends is a demonstration of this love and commitment. So, how do you do it? It starts with being genuine. Being a genuine friend means not being hypocritical or deceiving. You should be yourself and allow your friends to be themselves. Friendships thrive when there is honesty and authenticity.

Listening

Listening is a vital part of caring. When friends talk, whether sharing joys, discussing fears, or just rambling, being present and listening to them without judgment is an excellent sign of caring.

This doesn't mean simply hearing their words. It means understanding their emotions and showing empathy.

Support in times of need is another essential aspect of caring. This can range from comforting a friend after a disappointment to helping with practical needs such as a ride home or even a home-cooked meal when sick.

Encouragement is a powerful form of caring. Speak encouragement to your friends when they are in crisis or even when they are flourishing. Encouragement often provides the extra push needed to overcome a challenge or strive for an almost-reached goal.

Prayer

Prayer is a fundamental part of a Christian’s life and is just as important in friendships. Pray for your friends and also pray with them. This form of love and care might often be overlooked, but it’s incredibly powerful.

Respecting boundaries also plays a significant role in caring for friends. Everyone has their personal space and private issues that they may or may not want to discuss. Being respectful towards these boundaries exhibits care.

Friendships are not just about sunny days; they also involve navigating storms. In these challenging times, showing patience and forgiveness is vital. Sometimes, friends might act in ways that hurt us or disappoint us. Jesus taught us to forgive seven times and seventy times seven (Matthew 18:22).

Celebrate your friends! Rejoice with them in their successes and milestones. A joy shared is a joy multiplied. Friendships thrive when both parties are genuinely happy for each other.

Constructive Criticism

Caring for friends also means gently challenging them to be their best version. Constructive criticism, when delivered with love, can help friends grow and develop.

Caring for friends doesn’t mean you should always agree with them. It’s healthy to have different opinions and perspectives. However, disagreements should be handled with respect and fairness.

Keeping the lines of communication open is essential in maintaining good friendships. Checking in on your friends regularly, even just to say hello, can mean a lot to them.

In the Book of Proverbs, we are advised that "Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another” (27:17). This verse emphasizes the vital role that friends play in our personal and spiritual growth.

In caring for friends, it’s essential to remember that no one is perfect. Everyone has their flaws and makes mistakes. Recognize this and show grace when a friend stumbles.

Time spent together strengthens your bond. Make time for your friends, invite them for a meal, walk together, or simply hang out.

We have focused on how to care for your friends, but it’s also important to let your friends care for you. Allow them to support you, and don't hesitate to contact them when you need help.

Ultimately, caring for friends is about embodying Christ-like love. John 15:13 says, “Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.” While this doesn't necessarily mean to die for your friends, it refers to the willingness to sacrifice for them. That is the essence of caring for friends.

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